RACHEL never knew a white person had ever got HIV, she thought only BLACK PEOPLE had got HIV

Rachel a mother-of-three who had unprotected sex says she never dreamed she was at risk of HIV - because 'only African people could get it'.

Rachel Dilley, 48, developed the condition nearly a decade ago.

She said that the risks had genuinely never crossed her mind.

Rachel Dilley says she had no idea of the risks of getting HIV - because she thought 'only people in Africa got it'

It was in 2004, just short of her 40th birthday, when she embarked on online dating, having split from her partner of 20 years and the father of her children the year before. 

She began dating a man called Simon* and said the pair seemed to click and get on well.

Over the course of the summer, their relationship progressed physically.

When quizzed by about how sex education campaigns and messages had passed her by, she admitted they simply had. 
Within a few months, the relationship between Ms Dilley and Simon was over - and shortly afterwards she began to feel unwell.
'I had swollen glands, a sore throat, a temperature and couldn't eat properly,' she recalled. 
'It was like a really severe bout of the flu.'
After tests were inconclusive, it was suggested - to her surprise - she should take an HIV test. 
'I thought "why?",' she explained.


'I just didn't know anything about it - I just thought you got it in Africa. I didn't know a white person had ever got it.'
Her comments were described by Philip as 'extremely naive'.
She went on to explain that a week after taking the test, she received the devastating news that she was, indeed, HIV positive. 
'I felt like I was walking into a black hole - and my first words were "am I going to die"?  
'It sounds stupid now - as now I know that HIV is not a death sentence.
'My children, who were teenagers at the time, took the news well - as did my mother when she was alive.'